We just found out that there is a problem with our paperwork that the US citizenship office is reviewing. Two names were misspelled and they have told us we must request a new Letter Seeking Confirmation from China. We are heartbroken. This should delay our traveling about a month or two. Why does it have to be so hard!?! I have prayed that God would go before our paperwork and correct any mistakes we missed. I am having a really hard time right now, asking why, why, why...
It's just so hard to believe it has to be this hard!!!
As I was fussing, crying and praying earlier, my Lord spoke to me through a song that came on the radio by Matthew West. The lyrics went something like this...
You must think I'm strong,
To give me what I'm going through.
Forgive me if I'm wrong,
but this looks like more than I can do,
on my own.
I know I'm not strong enough to be everything I'm supposed to be
I give up, I'm not strong enough
Hands of mercy, wont you cover me?
Lord, right now I'm asking you to be strong enough,
strong enough for both of us.
well maybe, maybe that's the point,
to reach the point of giving up.
because when I'm finally at rock bottom, that's when I start looking up
I am broken, You are God.
You are strong when I am weak.
I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength
And I don't have to be strong enough.
Lord, right now I 'm asking You to be strong enough for the both of us.
I've also been praying the lyrics of this beautiful song for the past few months, Blessings, from Laura Story...
We pray for wisdom, your voice to hear
We cry in anger when we can not feel you near.
We doubt your goodness, we doubt your love
As if every promise from your Word is not enough.
And all the while you hear each spoken need
Yet love us way too much to give us lesser things
What if your blessings come through raindrops?
What if your healing comes through tears?
What if a thousand sleepless nights are what it takes to know your near...
What if trials of this life are your mercies in disguise?
This Christmas I will be praising God for our beautiful daughter and that He has brought us this far and for what is to come. And at the same time, I will be mourning that we will not be together this Christmas and for the two years we have missed of her precious life. He is faithful and He is always good!
Merry Christmas!!!
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Thursday, December 1, 2011
We received our LOC!!
On Tuesday we heard from ACGI that they had received our Letter Seeking Confirmation from China. A very sophisticated form from China written in Chinese and English basically seeking to confirm that we want to adopt the precious baby girl we already said we want to adopt. This is what we have been waiting on since September 1st. Praise the Lord!!! So, since Tuesday we have been very busy gathering and anxiously filling out all the forms that are to be mailed in with the signed LOC. Because of the typo I previously made, I was so worried that I would make another error and that we would be delayed again. Tonight we will sign this form and overnight the package to the United States Citizenship and Immigration Services and then we will begin gathering some more documents to be mailed to China. Then we wait again to hear back from the US and Chinese governments. We should travel to China in about three months.
Thank you so much for your prayers. This waiting has definitley not been easy, even though I keep telling myself that I better enjoy this time while I can still sleep through the night! I had a dream a couple of nights ago that she was here in the US and we took possession of her here. It was very sudden and unexpected, like a phone call saying, "meet me at ..., I have your child for you." In my dream, that first night, I couldn't get her to sleep and I was so tired and she was so tired. But she wouldn't go to sleep that night or the next day. When I woke up I was very thankful for the rest I was able to get in my comfortable bed that night.
We are so excited to have reached this step in our journey!! Thank you so much for keeping up with us!!
Thank you so much for your prayers. This waiting has definitley not been easy, even though I keep telling myself that I better enjoy this time while I can still sleep through the night! I had a dream a couple of nights ago that she was here in the US and we took possession of her here. It was very sudden and unexpected, like a phone call saying, "meet me at ..., I have your child for you." In my dream, that first night, I couldn't get her to sleep and I was so tired and she was so tired. But she wouldn't go to sleep that night or the next day. When I woke up I was very thankful for the rest I was able to get in my comfortable bed that night.
We are so excited to have reached this step in our journey!! Thank you so much for keeping up with us!!
Sunday, October 23, 2011
It was one of those days...
We've all had those days, when you get the feeling you really should just go back home and go to bed. Tuesday of last week was one of those days. I got out of bed at 4:20am to eat breakfast and spend time in the Word and fellowship with my heavenly Father. Then I headed outside to walk the, dog, Ginger and the cat, Tiger, had left parts of a dead animal at the back door. The cat had successfully pulled every major organ out of the poor animal. Yeah!!! Cleaning up that mess wasn't what I wanted to spend time (time I didn't have) doing. Thank you, dad, for helping me clean up the mess the cat left!
I had a haircut scheduled at 8:00am, so when I got ready for work, I decided to save time by not washing and fixing my hair. Normally, the bus picks Noah up at 7:35 and I leave and take Brian to EMCA after Noah is picked up and drop him usually five minutes 'til 8:00. Well, this particular morning we waited for the bus to come until 7:45 and it never came. So, at 7:45, we left to take Noah and Brian to school. Noah was on time, but Brian got to school ten minutes late. Any other morning, I wouldn't have distressed so much, but this morning, I had not washed and fixed my hair and I REALLY didn't want to walk into the school looking as bad as I did! I had thoughts of just dropping him and not walking in to check him in, but I did.
Well, throughout the day, again and again, things kept happening and I kept thinking, "I knew I should have just gone back to bed!"
Early in the afternoon, our case worker from our adoption agency called on my cell. A voice in my head kept saying...don't get your hopes up, don't get your hopes up, yes, it is time to receive our letter of confirmation from China, but wait to hear what she says, to make sure it is news worth celebrating before getting excited.
And she was not calling with the exciting news I was hoping for. Instead she was calling to say there was a problem with our paperwork. We had to give details on a medical form about any surgeries we have had and we disclosed on the form that we had been in a car accident and had surgery for the injuries from the car accident. We also had to send a letter from the doctor about the surgeries with a statement confirming that our injuries nor the surgeries would keep us from being good parents. The problem was that on one form, there was a typo and it stated the accident and surgeries were in the year 2006 and the letters from the doctors correctly said the accident was in 1996. So, we had to go back to the Dr. and get the medical form redone, signed, notarized and then had to take them to be county certified and state certified. On Wednesday we mailed the corrected forms to All God's Children and on Thursday they mailed them to DC to be authenticated. Tiffany thinks she should have them back by the end of next week and then she will mail them to China.
The good news is that China no longer automatically penalizes the family 6-8 weeks for a mistake like they used to do. Praise the Lord!!! It will take a couple of weeks longer, but hopefully no more.
Thank you all so much for your prayers!!! We really need them. This is SO hard!! My theme song currently is Mandisa's "Stronger", knowing in my heart that this time of waiting will be over soon and while we wait, God is making us stronger. We must trust in Him and when our strength is gone, we "fall into the arms of Jesus".
I had a haircut scheduled at 8:00am, so when I got ready for work, I decided to save time by not washing and fixing my hair. Normally, the bus picks Noah up at 7:35 and I leave and take Brian to EMCA after Noah is picked up and drop him usually five minutes 'til 8:00. Well, this particular morning we waited for the bus to come until 7:45 and it never came. So, at 7:45, we left to take Noah and Brian to school. Noah was on time, but Brian got to school ten minutes late. Any other morning, I wouldn't have distressed so much, but this morning, I had not washed and fixed my hair and I REALLY didn't want to walk into the school looking as bad as I did! I had thoughts of just dropping him and not walking in to check him in, but I did.
Well, throughout the day, again and again, things kept happening and I kept thinking, "I knew I should have just gone back to bed!"
Early in the afternoon, our case worker from our adoption agency called on my cell. A voice in my head kept saying...don't get your hopes up, don't get your hopes up, yes, it is time to receive our letter of confirmation from China, but wait to hear what she says, to make sure it is news worth celebrating before getting excited.
And she was not calling with the exciting news I was hoping for. Instead she was calling to say there was a problem with our paperwork. We had to give details on a medical form about any surgeries we have had and we disclosed on the form that we had been in a car accident and had surgery for the injuries from the car accident. We also had to send a letter from the doctor about the surgeries with a statement confirming that our injuries nor the surgeries would keep us from being good parents. The problem was that on one form, there was a typo and it stated the accident and surgeries were in the year 2006 and the letters from the doctors correctly said the accident was in 1996. So, we had to go back to the Dr. and get the medical form redone, signed, notarized and then had to take them to be county certified and state certified. On Wednesday we mailed the corrected forms to All God's Children and on Thursday they mailed them to DC to be authenticated. Tiffany thinks she should have them back by the end of next week and then she will mail them to China.
The good news is that China no longer automatically penalizes the family 6-8 weeks for a mistake like they used to do. Praise the Lord!!! It will take a couple of weeks longer, but hopefully no more.
Thank you all so much for your prayers!!! We really need them. This is SO hard!! My theme song currently is Mandisa's "Stronger", knowing in my heart that this time of waiting will be over soon and while we wait, God is making us stronger. We must trust in Him and when our strength is gone, we "fall into the arms of Jesus".
Friday, September 2, 2011
One Step Closer!
After a longer than expected wait, we have received a preapproval from China to adopt X(We are not allowed to post info on her on the web, so we will just call her "X")! We are so thankful for all your prayers and your concern! Now we are one step closer to bringing her home!
We have three remaining steps before we travel...
1. Letter of Confirmation from China (1-3 months)
2. Consulate Approval and provisional approval (6 weeks)
3. travel approval (3-4 weeks)
4. TRAVEL 3-4 weeks after we receive our travel approval
(each step has to be completed before the next step begins)
We are praying for God's timing, and we know that our Heavenly Father wants X home as soon as possible! Oh, I desperately want to receive the Letter of Confirmation from China in less than a month! If all the wait times are on the short end, we could be traveling at the end of December. If the wait times are on the long end, we should travel in March. We would LOVE to travel the last week in December to pick up X! Our kids will be out of school, so that would be easier on our parents to not have to keep up with the rigorous school schedule of our kids while Greg and I are in China.
Thank you so much for your prayers!
We have three remaining steps before we travel...
1. Letter of Confirmation from China (1-3 months)
2. Consulate Approval and provisional approval (6 weeks)
3. travel approval (3-4 weeks)
4. TRAVEL 3-4 weeks after we receive our travel approval
(each step has to be completed before the next step begins)
We are praying for God's timing, and we know that our Heavenly Father wants X home as soon as possible! Oh, I desperately want to receive the Letter of Confirmation from China in less than a month! If all the wait times are on the short end, we could be traveling at the end of December. If the wait times are on the long end, we should travel in March. We would LOVE to travel the last week in December to pick up X! Our kids will be out of school, so that would be easier on our parents to not have to keep up with the rigorous school schedule of our kids while Greg and I are in China.
Thank you so much for your prayers!
Thursday, July 28, 2011
"I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine" Isaiah 43:1
We received our log in number from China last Tuesday, July 19th, and with that number we were ready to receive the much anticipated referral we've been waiting on since we began our adoption journey. I knew that China normally updates their databank with a new group of orphans at the end of each month. So, on Tuesday, the26th, I couldn't stop thinking, --when, when, WHEN! When are we going to hear from our agency with "the call", the call we've been waiting for?!? When are we going to get to look at the face of our daughter and find out where she lives and what she eats and how she sleeps and how old she is and what she likes and what type of health problems she has and how much she weighs and...
...and then the phone rang, and it was All God's Children International!!! And Tiffany at AGCI said, "Hi! I found a little girl..."
We are SO EXCITED!! This is the moment we've been waiting for since we began our adoption journey in December 2010. We have received a referral, which means we have have been matched with a specific child and our agency put a hold on her so that no one else can claim her while we finish all our paperwork to finalize the adoption. I am not allowed to give any information about her on a blog or internet for privacy reasons until we have her in our custody. However, if you want details, get in touch with me, because I would LOVE to tell you all about her!!
Greg and I told our adoption agency that we do want to adopt her and they have sent our information to China to request an approval from them. Now we are waiting on approval from China (which takes about three weeks) before we know for sure that she is ours!!
I praise my God and Father for this precious daughter of the King!!! I praise Him for a unified vision between Greg and I about her and I praise Him for the confirmations He has blessed us with, even before we received her referral that she is the one He has chosen for our family.
Thank you so much for ALL your prayers and your support! Please pray for her health and that God would prepare her to be a member of our family and that she will bond and attach to us quickly.
OH, We are already so smitten with her! The next 5-6 months will be hard as we wait for all the paperwork to be prepared and completed before we can travel.
"Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by your name; you are Mine." Isaiah 43:1
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
Both Hands Project
We had a great day at Mr Strecker's house!! It was a very hot day!! We didn't find out until a few days after the project that the heat index that day was 108 degrees!!! We had a few team members to get too hot, but after a time of rest, everyone recuperated. We praise the Lord that we had no injuries and we accomplished SO MUCH for Mr Strecker! We have been blessed to get to spend time with Mr Strecker over the past month and get to know him better and what a blessing that has been to Greg and I. I believe all our team members were blessed to meet him and serve him also.
We have THE BEST FRIENDS in the world! Greg and I were humbled by our friends and family giving their lives for the day to serve Mr Strecker and help us bring home our daughter. "Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends." John 15:13. Our team members laid down their lives for us that day!!! Greg and I pray that we can return the favor and pay it forward. We were also amazed at the generosity of Marvin's, a local store that donated lots and lots of materials and supplies, Lumber Junction, who donated ALL the lumber we needed, CVS, who donated LOTS of bottled water, and Speed Screen, who donated all the screen to re-screen Mr Strecker's porch! We are in AWE of the generosity of family and friends who have donated financially toward our adoption expenses!
Check out our Both Hands project video at http://bothhandsfoundation.org/greg-and-angie-jones.aspx. Thank you to everyone and God Bless!
We have THE BEST FRIENDS in the world! Greg and I were humbled by our friends and family giving their lives for the day to serve Mr Strecker and help us bring home our daughter. "Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends." John 15:13. Our team members laid down their lives for us that day!!! Greg and I pray that we can return the favor and pay it forward. We were also amazed at the generosity of Marvin's, a local store that donated lots and lots of materials and supplies, Lumber Junction, who donated ALL the lumber we needed, CVS, who donated LOTS of bottled water, and Speed Screen, who donated all the screen to re-screen Mr Strecker's porch! We are in AWE of the generosity of family and friends who have donated financially toward our adoption expenses!
Check out our Both Hands project video at http://bothhandsfoundation.org/greg-and-angie-jones.aspx. Thank you to everyone and God Bless!
Monday, June 27, 2011
Our Dossier has been mailed to China!
Our Dossier was mailed to China on June 21st!!! WHEW!! We are so excited to be at this point in our adoption process. Now we wait to hear back from China that we are logged in to their system. We have to have our "log in" number to receive a new referral of a child on the databank of Chinese orphans. Hopefully in the next couple of months, we will know who God has chosen to place in our family! We can't wait to know her! We have been told by our agency that once we are matched with a specific child, we should travel to China to bring her home in approximately six months.
We are so excited about our Both Hands project! God led us to a very special widower and we are so thankful for the opportunity to help out around his house. When we began looking for a widow for our project, we talked to our pastors, the WELCOME center, the Elmore Baptist Association and no one knew of a widow/er that needed any help around his/her house. I thought, this is hard to believe! Praise the Lord that we can't find a widow that needs any help! BUT...we need a widow that needs some help!! We continued to pray that God would lead us to a widow or widower. Meanwhile, we were very intently trying to get our Dossier documents ready to be mailed and we were also praying about team members for our project. As God brought certain people to my mind, I made a list of people to ask to be on our Both Hands team. The team will help us fix up the widow/ers home and also help with the fundraising by sending letters asking for sponsorships for their work on project day, in addition to the letters Greg and I send. As I prayed about team members and a widow, a friend kept coming to mind. I kept thinking..."Am I suppose to ask her to be on our team?" We didn't have a widow yet, and something didn't feel like it fit just right, so I wrote her name down on my list, but I waited. The day after we put our Dossier in the mail to AGCI, I felt the urge to contact her, so I emailed her and told her about the Both Hands project. I told her we were getting a little anxious because we couldn't find a widow that needs help anywhere! I asked her if she would happen to know of a widow or widower that needed some help around the home. Maybe one with tornado damage, but not necessarily. I said..."We feel like we will be doing jobs around his/her home like replacing plumbing fixtures, electrical fixtures, painting, landscaping, light repairs, etc..."
Her reply was, "Oh, mylanta! I could just cry...My dad is a widower...for five and a half years now...and we sure could use some help." She went on to explain that he had a bathtub that needed to be installed and hooked up to the plumbing, some wainscoting and trim needed to be put up, tree limbs needing to be trimmed, bushes needing to be trimmed, skirting needed fixing, screen needing fixing, bathroom tile needed completing. I got chills when I read her email! Her list of needs almost perfectly lined up with what Greg and I imagined we might be doing! After Greg and I discussed it, we felt that God had definitely brought us together with Mr Greg Strecker.
We went and visited with him that weekend and we were amazed to hear his story!! He was born in the Ukraine in 1938. His mother was Ukrainian and his father was of German descent. When Greg was young, his father was executed by the Russian KGB. Greg, along with his mother and brother moved around Europe trying to escape the hand of communism as Stalin and then Hitler rose in power. When Mr Strecker was an adolescent, they came to Brazil and he was successful in the different jobs he took. He was very good at everything he did and whereever he went he brought success to the businesses he was working for! Then Castro gained power in Cuba. They had come halfway across the world to escape Communism and here it was knocking at their backdoor again! About that time, he and his mother and brother finally received their VISA's to enter the United States of America! I've never met anyone so proud to be an AMERICAN!!! When he speaks of this country, tears come to his eyes. When he came to the US, they told him he had every right of a citizen, except he couldn't vote. He was immediatly drafted into the US army. He served four years and then met and married his wife, Patricia, in 1964. Mr Strecker became a US citizen the day his oldest son, Andrew was born, December 7, 1965. Mrs Strecker passed away in October 2005. Mr Strecker is no longer able to keep up with all the needs around his home and we are DELIGHTED that we have the priviledge to help him! There are so many more details and miracles of his life that I have left out. If you ever get the chance to hear his testimony, it is awesome!!
Our project day is July 9th and we will post a video on the blog or you can go to our Both Hands page at http://bothhandsfoundation.org/greg-and-angie-jones.aspx to see it soon after our project day!
Thank you so much for your prayers and keeping up with us! Sorry so long between blogs, it is hard to find an extra minute. I can't wait to share our project video with you when we complete our Both Hands project. I am so thankful that God worked it out so that our Both Hands project is happening now, while we are in a waiting stage with our adoption. His way and His time is always PERFECT!
Both Hands, One for the Widow, One for the Orphan.
We are so excited about our Both Hands project! God led us to a very special widower and we are so thankful for the opportunity to help out around his house. When we began looking for a widow for our project, we talked to our pastors, the WELCOME center, the Elmore Baptist Association and no one knew of a widow/er that needed any help around his/her house. I thought, this is hard to believe! Praise the Lord that we can't find a widow that needs any help! BUT...we need a widow that needs some help!! We continued to pray that God would lead us to a widow or widower. Meanwhile, we were very intently trying to get our Dossier documents ready to be mailed and we were also praying about team members for our project. As God brought certain people to my mind, I made a list of people to ask to be on our Both Hands team. The team will help us fix up the widow/ers home and also help with the fundraising by sending letters asking for sponsorships for their work on project day, in addition to the letters Greg and I send. As I prayed about team members and a widow, a friend kept coming to mind. I kept thinking..."Am I suppose to ask her to be on our team?" We didn't have a widow yet, and something didn't feel like it fit just right, so I wrote her name down on my list, but I waited. The day after we put our Dossier in the mail to AGCI, I felt the urge to contact her, so I emailed her and told her about the Both Hands project. I told her we were getting a little anxious because we couldn't find a widow that needs help anywhere! I asked her if she would happen to know of a widow or widower that needed some help around the home. Maybe one with tornado damage, but not necessarily. I said..."We feel like we will be doing jobs around his/her home like replacing plumbing fixtures, electrical fixtures, painting, landscaping, light repairs, etc..."
Her reply was, "Oh, mylanta! I could just cry...My dad is a widower...for five and a half years now...and we sure could use some help." She went on to explain that he had a bathtub that needed to be installed and hooked up to the plumbing, some wainscoting and trim needed to be put up, tree limbs needing to be trimmed, bushes needing to be trimmed, skirting needed fixing, screen needing fixing, bathroom tile needed completing. I got chills when I read her email! Her list of needs almost perfectly lined up with what Greg and I imagined we might be doing! After Greg and I discussed it, we felt that God had definitely brought us together with Mr Greg Strecker.
We went and visited with him that weekend and we were amazed to hear his story!! He was born in the Ukraine in 1938. His mother was Ukrainian and his father was of German descent. When Greg was young, his father was executed by the Russian KGB. Greg, along with his mother and brother moved around Europe trying to escape the hand of communism as Stalin and then Hitler rose in power. When Mr Strecker was an adolescent, they came to Brazil and he was successful in the different jobs he took. He was very good at everything he did and whereever he went he brought success to the businesses he was working for! Then Castro gained power in Cuba. They had come halfway across the world to escape Communism and here it was knocking at their backdoor again! About that time, he and his mother and brother finally received their VISA's to enter the United States of America! I've never met anyone so proud to be an AMERICAN!!! When he speaks of this country, tears come to his eyes. When he came to the US, they told him he had every right of a citizen, except he couldn't vote. He was immediatly drafted into the US army. He served four years and then met and married his wife, Patricia, in 1964. Mr Strecker became a US citizen the day his oldest son, Andrew was born, December 7, 1965. Mrs Strecker passed away in October 2005. Mr Strecker is no longer able to keep up with all the needs around his home and we are DELIGHTED that we have the priviledge to help him! There are so many more details and miracles of his life that I have left out. If you ever get the chance to hear his testimony, it is awesome!!
Our project day is July 9th and we will post a video on the blog or you can go to our Both Hands page at http://bothhandsfoundation.org/greg-and-angie-jones.aspx to see it soon after our project day!
Thank you so much for your prayers and keeping up with us! Sorry so long between blogs, it is hard to find an extra minute. I can't wait to share our project video with you when we complete our Both Hands project. I am so thankful that God worked it out so that our Both Hands project is happening now, while we are in a waiting stage with our adoption. His way and His time is always PERFECT!
Both Hands, One for the Widow, One for the Orphan.
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